Our relationships are a reflection of who we are – our attitude, values and decisions. Those we choose to surround ourselves with have a significant influence on our life. That being the case a great question to ask (and ask often) is “am I surrounded by those who reflect the best possible me?”
According to the Law of Attraction – like attracts like. So if like energy attracts like energy it would make sense to be the person you want to attract. As Winston Churchill said, the optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty, attracting like-minded, winning attitudes. On the flip side remember, misery loves company and so often victims attract other victims in a high-energy, powerful but not so attractive world of drama. And being surrounded by many does not guarantee you have attracted the right people.
Look around – who are you keeping company with? Is your energy attracting the right energy? And a final thought. It’s best to love the one you’re with first – that’s you! So work on making your reflection beautiful to you because there’s nothing more attractive than someone happy in her or his own skin. Then, before too long and without much effort you will attract crowds of similarly happy and like-minded people – all reflecting and attracting greatness.
Ask often… Mirror mirror on the wall, am I reflecting the best me to one and all?
And be prepared to hear the answer.
If you’re feeling a little fearful around taking responsibility, not sure how to plan ahead in this current continued uncertainty, and ready to turn the page in 2021 and start fresh – then I’m here for you.