One way to hinder achievement and life satisfaction is to spend time with the wrong people. By wrong people I don’t mean bad people — just people who may be negative, unfocused, and who may try to drag you into their drama. Spend time with the right people! Being with the right people can be such a cherished and unforgettable part of your life journey. These people can inspire you to great achievements, give you insight, and fill your life with excitement and energy.
We get to choose what time we spend with which people. How many times have you said yes to spending time with someone who doesn’t make you feel great about who you are and where you are heading in your life? Or have you ever gone somewhere and regretted that you went because you knew there were much better ways to spend your time? Some people can deplete us, drain us of precious time and positivity, and distract us from what we value. It doesn’t mean we can never see these people (which could be hard when some of them are family!), but we need to learn how to keep them at ‘arms length’.
So where are these right people? The answer may be in these wise words from Will Smith: “Don’t chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you. And stay.”
If you choose to walk the path of a True Believer you will start to notice that other True Believers will be attracted to you and the non-believers will be less and less evident. When you start to walk forward with others who are creating their own success pictures, we form some strong bonds. You will have an unwavering commitment from those who believe in you and support you.
This is your True Believer tribe!
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